Elsie Gartner is seen in a photo dated 2014. (Elsie Gartner/Facebook)

By Chris Vandenbreekel

Kindersley Tragedy

‘You were everything to me’: Kindersley family, community grieve after separated couple murder-suicide

Dec 13, 2019 | 3:45 PM

A woman who was killed in a murder-suicide in Kindersley on Thursday is being remembered as a loving mother, grandmother and co-worker by family and the larger community.

Elsie Gartner, 64, a health worker with the Heartland Health Region, was shot by her estranged husband 66-year-old Dave Gartner at their family home around 10 a.m. on Thursday. It led to an extended RCMP standoff that forced schools to keep children inside for the day.

RCMP say a single gunshot was reported from the home just after 10 a.m., and an adult daughter of the couple fled the home to alert police. Amanda Gartner confirmed in a Facebook post she was that daughter.

“Mom, I will always remember this day. So sad how you went. I was by your side and glad I had your last moments with you,” Amanda wrote in a post to Elsie Gartner’s wall.

“You were everything to me.”

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Friends say the couple had been separated for months and living apart. RCMP confirmed the pair were in divorce proceedings, but there were no previous reports of domestic violence.

Dave was living in the family home while they worked to sell it, friends said. RCMP said the home was recently sold.

“It’s hard for me to even speak about it,” said Bob Elmhurst, who shared coffee with Dave Gartner at the local A&W on a regular basis.
“Yesterday was just a regular day.”

Elmhurst said Gartner engaged in the usual conversations, discussing the sale of his house among other things. Everything seemed normal, he said.

Others told 650 CKOM Gartner left the restaurant to have a smoke sometime before 10 a.m. and wasn’t heard from again.

According to RCMP, the first officers to arrived set up a perimeter then waited for the emergency response unit, and all through the day police didn’t see any movement or hear sounds from the home.

“Officers tried several times as they were setting up the interior perimeter to try to make contact with anyone in the residence, through voice, cell phone. There was no response,” said RCMP Corporal Rob King.

RCMP said they entered the home around 3 p.m. with the use of a robot and discovered the bodies of Elsie and Dave.

“A window was broken out, a robot was put in and then went through the house to assess the situation and members followed afterward once it was deemed to be safe,” said Rob King.

It’s relatively uncommon for RCMP to say publicly that an incident is considered a murder-suicide, and to release the identities of those involved. King said the RCMP determined this case warranted the information.

“We take each situation on its individual merits, and then we make a decision at the time, based on the circumstances of each situation. Based on the totality of this situation, it was determined that we would release the names,” said King.

Elmhurst said the tragedy is being taken hard by many in the Kindersley community.

“It’s hard on family, friends. It’s going to be a rough Christmas for a lot of people.”

—With files from 650 CKOM’s Keenan Sorokan, and 980 CJME’s Lisa Schick